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Tell us your rhythm.
A short questionnaire about desire, frequency and what you enjoy. Every question is optional. Share only what feels comfortable.
THE WHY BEHIND THE WANTThe spark matters.
The spark matters.
So does what
comes after.
You can love their laugh, share their playlists, and still feel miles apart when it comes to intimacy.
A different starting point
YOUR
RHYTHM.No right amount.
Just what feels right for you.
RHYTHM.No right amount.Just what feels right for you.
01 / THE QUIET DISCONNECTClose together.
Close together.
Feeling far apart.
One person feels unwanted.
The other feels under pressure.
When you want different things from intimacy, even reaching for each other can start to feel complicated. Some people call it a “dead bedroom”. Behind that phrase can be loneliness, frustration, and two people who care about each other.
It doesn’t mean either person is wrong. And it doesn’t mean the relationship has to end. But it is a conversation worth having—before the silence gets comfortable.
Wanting more isn’t too much.
Wanting less isn’t too little.
Your desire isn’t a problem to fix.
It’s a part of you worth understanding.
02 / A MORE HONEST HELLOStart with a little
Start with a little
less guesswork.
Libimatch considers libido compatibility alongside your ordinary dating preferences. Here’s how it works.
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See who catches your eye.
Your answers help prioritise compatible profiles within your dating preferences. There’s still room for attraction, shared interests and a surprise.
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A mutual yes. A real hello.
Like each other to open a text conversation. A match is an invitation to talk. It is never consent to anything more.
OPEN ABOUT DATING. DISCREET ABOUT DETAILS.Your profile is public
Your profile is public
to members.
Your answers aren’t.
No libido badges. No intimate scores. Answers are encrypted before storage and stay off your profile. You can skip questions or clear your answers.
See how we protect your information03 / FAIR QUESTIONSCurious?
Curious?
Good.
Is this just for people with a high libido?
No. Libimatch is for adults across different levels of desire. Higher, lower or somewhere in between—the idea is compatibility, not a competition.
Long-term relationships or something casual?
Both. You choose your dating intent and ordinary preferences. Libimatch supports people looking for long- or short-term connections.
Will a compatible libido make a relationship work?
It can be a useful starting point, but it is not a guarantee. Desire changes, and compatibility also involves communication, values and mutual care. Our matching is a heuristic, not a medical assessment.
Who can see my answers?
Other members cannot see your intimate answers or compatibility scores. Answers help shape suggestions behind the scenes. No system can eliminate every possibility of indirect inference; our privacy page explains the protections and their limits.
Can I try Libimatch now?
We are preparing to launch. Public registration is not open yet, and Libimatch will be free at launch. The English-language web app is for adults 18+, starting in the Netherlands with worldwide sign-up planned. Explore the app preview.
Honesty goes both ways.
Desire differences don’t automatically make a relationship unhappy. Matching can’t replace communication or consent. Read the research on desire differences.
Less second-guessing.
More being yourself.
Let your next hello start with a little more honesty.
Take a look insideLaunching soon · Free at launch · Adults 18+