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Tell us your rhythm.
A short questionnaire about desire, frequency and what you enjoy. Every question is optional. Share only what feels comfortable.
WHY WE ARE BUILDING LIBIMATCHIntimacy deserves
Intimacy deserves
a place in
your next hello.
We are building Libimatch together with a friend who works with people on relationships and intimacy. Our shared belief: what you want from closeness deserves a conversation from the start.
A different starting point
YOUR
RHYTHM.No right amount.
Just what feels right for you.
RHYTHM.No right amount.Just what feels right for you.
01 / WHERE IT STARTEDA friendship.
A friendship.
A shared reason
to build.
We kept coming back to intimacy.
And how hard it can be to talk about.
Libimatch grew out of conversations with a friend whose work focuses on relationships and intimacy. He is working with us on the app because he believes those needs deserve more attention when people are getting to know each other.
For us, intimacy means more than how often someone wants sex. It also means affection, feeling wanted, feeling comfortable and being able to say what you need. We wanted to give that part of compatibility a place in dating, with privacy built in.
That is the starting point for Libimatch: help people consider their wishes earlier, without putting intimate answers on a public profile. A more honest introduction, with room for the rest of who you are.
02 / THE QUIET DISCONNECTClose together.
Close together.
Feeling far apart.
One person feels unwanted.
The other feels under pressure.
When you want different things from intimacy, even reaching for each other can start to feel complicated. Some people call it a “dead bedroom”. Behind that phrase can be loneliness, frustration, and two people who care about each other.
It doesn’t mean either person is wrong. And it doesn’t mean the relationship has to end. But it is a conversation worth having—before the silence gets comfortable.
Wanting more isn’t too much.
Wanting less isn’t too little.
Your desire isn’t a problem to fix.
It’s a part of you worth understanding.
03 / A MORE HONEST HELLOStart with a little
Start with a little
less guesswork.
Libimatch considers libido compatibility alongside your ordinary dating preferences. Read our dating guides or the Nederlandse datinggids for practical explanations. Here’s how it works.
02
See who catches your eye.
Your answers help prioritise compatible profiles within your dating preferences. There’s still room for attraction, shared interests and a surprise.
03
A mutual yes. A real hello.
Like each other to open a text conversation. A match is an invitation to talk. It is never consent to anything more.
OPEN ABOUT DATING. DISCREET ABOUT DETAILS.Your profile is public
Your profile is public
to members.
Your answers aren’t.
No libido badges. No intimate scores. Answers are encrypted before storage and stay off your profile. You can skip questions or clear your answers.
See how we protect your information04 / FAIR QUESTIONSCurious?
Curious?
Good.
Is this just for people with a high libido?
No. Libimatch is for adults across different levels of desire. Higher, lower or somewhere in between—the idea is compatibility, not a competition.
Long-term relationships or something casual?
Both. You choose your dating intent and ordinary preferences. Libimatch supports people looking for long- or short-term connections.
Are intimacy issues behind every relationship problem?
No. Relationships can be affected by many things, including communication, trust, stress and different priorities. Our focus on intimacy reflects why we are building Libimatch; it does not mean libido explains every difficulty, or that matching can prevent one.
Is Libimatch a form of relationship therapy?
No. It is a dating app. The conversations that inspired us do not make the questionnaire a clinical test or the app a treatment. Our role is to offer introductions, not to diagnose difficulties or provide therapy.
Will a compatible libido make a relationship work?
It can be a useful starting point, but it is not a guarantee. Desire changes, and compatibility also involves communication, values and mutual care. Our matching is a heuristic, not a medical assessment.
Who can see my answers?
Other members cannot see your intimate answers or compatibility scores. Answers help shape suggestions behind the scenes. No system can eliminate every possibility of indirect inference; our privacy page explains the protections and their limits.
Can I try Libimatch now?
We are preparing to launch. Public registration is not open yet, and Libimatch will be free at launch. The English and Dutch web app is for adults 18+, starting in the Netherlands with worldwide sign-up planned. Explore the app preview.
Honesty goes both ways.
Desire differences don’t automatically make a relationship unhappy. Matching can’t replace communication or consent. Read the research on desire differences.
Less second-guessing.
More being yourself.
Let your next hello start with a little more honesty.
Join the waitlistLaunching soon · Free at launch · Adults 18+