Your answers.
Your business.
Dating should make you feel seen. Not exposed.
What people can see
Your approved photos, first name, age, city, country, dating intent, bio, profile prompt and interests. Your email, birth date and location coordinates stay off your public profile. Profiles are shown to signed-in members through discovery and connections.
What stays private
Intimacy answers are encrypted before storage. They help prioritize suggestions alongside ordinary dating preferences, shared interests, activity and variety. We do not show other members your answers, intimacy scores or category breakdowns. This is a matching heuristic, not a prediction of relationship success.
Your choice, every time
Every intimacy question is optional. Sharing answers requires your explicit consent. You can edit them, delete all answers and withdraw consent, or delete your account in settings. Deleting answers does not remove existing suggestions or matches.
Reducing guesswork about your answers
Questionnaire changes apply to later suggestion batches, within 48 hours. Saves are limited to three per day. We mix several factors and do not expose internal rankings. Recommendations may still provide indirect clues; we cannot promise that inference is impossible.
Location and photos
You can enter a city manually worldwide. Optional browser location is rounded to approximately a city-sized area before saving and used for approximate distance filtering. Only your city is displayed. Uploaded photos are re-encoded to remove embedded metadata and reviewed before appearing to other members.
Messages and moderation
Chat is text only and available after mutual likes. Messages are stored on the server; this is not end-to-end encrypted chat. Authorized moderators review reports and photos. No advertising or analytics trackers are included. Essential session storage keeps you signed in and protects forms.
App installation and notifications
Installation stores only a generic offline screen and public icons. Profiles, messages and private answers are not saved in the offline cache. If you opt in to push notifications, we store an encrypted browser subscription and a device cookie to manage delivery. Your browser’s push provider processes delivery; alerts contain only a generic match or message notice. You can turn push off for one or all devices in Settings. Logging out removes this device’s server subscription. Notifications already delivered may remain in your device’s notification history.
In-app notifications are kept for up to 30 days. Undelivered push alerts expire after one hour. Blocking or unmatching removes the associated in-app alerts and queued deliveries. Push subscriptions are removed when you disable them, delete your account or the browser reports that they have expired.
Access and deletion
Settings include a JSON download of your profile, latest answers, sent messages and photo metadata. Account deletion removes live account data, photos and conversations. Hosting logs and backups need separate retention and deletion procedures before public launch.